So I lost my job back in November of last year and the first thing I did was start looking for a new job. I have loved the career I switched to back in 2002 after leaving IBM: making things sound great. Whether it was running sound at church, recording demo CDs for friends or designing and installing sound systems for churches, it is something that has been thoroughly enjoyable for me. So losing my job in November was a crushing blow. I immediately looked to people in the business that I had connections with and none of them had a place for me.I searched a little farther afield and found AE Global Media in Charlotte. I sent them my resume and after 3 months of talking, wondering and waiting, they finally hired me in February to work on their installation team.
Within 6 weeks, I was promoted to Lead Installer and was given control of an installation project in Cranberry Township, PA.
What followed was 2 of the busiest, toughest months we, as a family, have ever gone through. The job was exactly what I wanted: an opportunity to continue in my career on a larger stage with a chance at advancing. However, that opportunity came at a price. I was traveling every single week up and down the East Coast. I would leave Monday morning when Rebecca got home from working all weekend and usually come home Friday, just in time for us to spend one exhausted evening together before she went back to work on Saturday. The kids we always so excited to see me when I came home and so sad to say goodbye the following Monday. Rebecca was stressed having to deal with raising and educating our children alone. And if I had to work over a weekend, which happened about once a month, she had to find someone to babysit the children overnight on Saturday and Sunday nights. After 3 1/2 months, I started to see my career in a different light.
One of our goals was for me to be able to support our family on just my income, allowing Rebecca to quit her job as a nurse and stay home full-time. That was possible, but it meant me having to work at least 55 hours every single week to make ends meet. Then, on a long ride home from Baltimore, Rebecca and I talked for a while on the phone about our respective jobs and whether we could do that. I also looked at some of the other goals we have for our family and things we want to accomplish and decided that it was extremely unlikely that we could ever do the things we want so long as I was traveling so much. What are these goals? Well, you'll have to wait on those... :-)
We decided Rebecca would go to her manager and see how things stood in her department at work and whether they had any need for her to return to being a full-time nurse. Now, she has been working 2 nights a week or 48 hours per pay period and a full-time, weekend-option position involves working 60 hours per pay period, so from our perspective, it's only one more night every 2 weeks that she would have to work. Not a big jump. For me to match her earning potential, I would have to work more than double that many...more like 65 hours every single week. Unfortunately, she was told she would have to wait a week because her manager was out of town. That was a long, anxious week of waiting. We shouldn't have worried, though, because they jumped for joy at the thought of having her back. (As an aside to my former co-workers: Sorry guys, I didn't want to get into all this and have to explain it over and over, so it was easier just to say that Rebecca was getting a promotion. Ultimately, the results are the same: she makes more than I could in half the time and I don't have to travel...)
So on June 4th, I turned in my notice and left for my last trip to Cranberry Township, PA to finish the job I was running there. The whole time, it was hard not to think about how great it would be once I'm home and also how strange it would be. There were also twinges of regret because I would be giving up a career that I really love and I would have to stop working with some really great guys. On the last 2 days up there, I had the pleasure of getting to mix two services on the system we installed and, I have to say, that it what I will miss the most. It was the first time in 6 years that I have mixed a service and it was a ton of fun. It was a great way to finish out the job.
I've been home now for a full week and the strangest thing is waking up in the morning and not really knowing for sure what day it is because I don't have anywhere to be... It's a great problem to have. I get to see my kids every morning, eat with them, play with them, work alongside them in the yard, teach them and enjoy every moment with them, even the whiny ones. I have a "honey-do" list a mile long, though most of it is self-inflicted. I have planning to do on major projects that I've never attempted. Over the next few months, I'll try my best to detail them here, so keep coming back to see what's going on.